the pink doll

When I saw a small girl forcing her father to buy her a new pink barbie doll I could not stop myself from looking at her.... I watched her, staring at that doll. When her dad said " Lets buy something for your  brother "  , she again gave a deep look at that doll and left without any words ....

While going out of the mall i could clearly see in her eyes the want and the urge of getting that doll .I could feel what she was going through....

I don't think she would have bought anything else .....She was looking at her dad and mom and her little brother..Her mom carried the younger one and she walked with her father ,who more or less was concentrating on making his young one(the boy) smile. 

This was when she lost it again,

the tears just rolled out of eyes as rain.....

In a pleading tone she said...."oh! Please papa get me that this time",

just holding the shop's door crying...

"It is so pretty, I PROMISE WOULD NEVER MAKE IT DIRTY".

But the words didn't matter the care taker "you have lots of..such kind".

"It is nothing the blue eyes, pink color and golden hairs that shine."

    "oww.. baby lets go to another , will buy something good for your little brother".

She just couldn't say anything after that. Because it was she only who asked daily to god for a wish of her mother, joined her hands infront of ideals and said "oh! Dear god ,please give me a brother".

Acid Attacks: a horrific dream

While going through newspaper today , I read an article about an acid attack victim who walked over ramp to raise money for other survivors of her kind. She did not have enough money , so some NGO sponsored her.
while going through this article I shivered and got goose bumps..WHY??....
Since last many days there were news about “ACID ATTACKS”, suddenly this picture of “crime” and “victims” had come into light. I was feeling good for the victims, as Government had promised some relief funds to those “forgotten bunch”, who had already suffered the worst.

I was in a shock ,thinking over-what their family members would be reacting like, the harsh comments of relatives , a hopeless life (no friends, no social circle). Whatever we believe in, but still the females are accepted as a picture of “beauty”, they are always expected to be a master-piece.

I have heard people say “ Girl should have eyes like a deer, lips like rose”, “she should be like a doll made of mirror-delicate and beautiful”, but what if she is not that way WOULD NO ONE MARRY HER?
Why people don’t get it that women are not commodity, they are a life, an important part of the society.
TO share it truly I have been shivering over the thought of acid attacks…The bikers moving around now seem scary ..After reading all the reasons of acid attacks which were family disputes, hurting dignity or ignoring someone-who is mentally disturbed. 

I hope people understand it soon …. BEAUTY LIES IN HEART AND ALSO that why make the minorities suffer… They are innocent .. why not co-operate with the ones who suffered and not let someone else be the victim.

The big "WHY"

When you feel too low and you have no reason's for anything...Have been working whole of the week and realised you got no time for yourself?? And you missed something you wanted to do or couldn't do something you committed to your some dear one....
"Are you happy?" This is the one question you would ask yourself every time."How responsible are you for your happiness??" would strike your mind at the back end
Just solution to all such stress would be to answer to your own soul..
Are you important to yourself..are you living the original "you's" life or someone else's...
Ask the WHY's instead of how.. You must know why are you being so busy to miss your own happy moments and depressing people related to you.

I heard it somewhere" The person who knows WHY rather than HOW would be successful. The reason was he would know WHY of doing anything was it for himself or to make someone else happy..
Make others happy should be the rule: Do you think this?? If your answer would be "Yes" than either you have become habitual of what people say or you are asocial worker. But i follow the rule

" If you are not your happy self, then how would you make others happy"

I wanted to open a "dog house" for all those stray dogs but this phylosophy turned the plan down. Why? See if i can not make a house for my own how am i going to make for some one else.''

This is why they say find "Why"
Why are you living?
You want a house , but then why?
Why you want a car?
why you want someone to adhore?
why you want to eat?why you want to sleep?

why why why ???

"LET YOUR SOUL  BE FREE ... LET YOURSELF BE THE LEAD CHARACTER OF YOUR LIFE..."

This why would make you powerful..It would energise you, it would help you in all the mess of life.

you would value people in your life.

you would value everything...

Just find a big  ...WHY?? and before that ask a why to "why",  why would you find a "why" do you want to change your life , your attitude towards things,etc ,etc??

"WINNERS HAVE ANSWERS TO ALL THE WHY'S"

Friends

I am really running so short of time , that I didn't even realize any walkout from my life. Time is running faster than it ever could. I am sitting over the chair and smelling buffalo leather may be due to the new cover, the closed glass doors and humidity has turned the atmosphere of the cabin heavy and to add on is the feeling of "Friendship Day".
I am missing my friends...oh! they have been pain most of the times ,you know friends are when they ask you to do some weirdest stuff, or they remember some random promise you made..
Yeah i am checking out all the crap pics (we call them), but there are smiles flourishing, there is spark in the eyes.
I am thrown back to the reality. yeah, all are settled, all are busy - a few got into jobs and rest went for higher studies. I never thought i would miss them so much.

we holded hands, we were together we knew it was going to end. we knew this time would come when we are going to be busy to meet or even talk but we would miss each other , because college time is what no one could ever forget.
"We always stay in time, it is just past, present or future"- MEGH

We all  stay in time..that is the demand of the almighty power. All are living for their responsibilities , few take themselves along and move on, rest kill themselves and just live for being a responsible person. Actually they forget their souls....
People would come and go in life but what remarks do we keep to miss them would make worth it worth. So i want each remarks to stay but stay happy with the signs.